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How We Break

Navigating the Wear and Tear of Living

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An expert, empathetic guide to the science, psychology and physiology of breaking, from the acclaimed author of How We Are
What happens when our minds and bodies are pushed beyond their limits? Vincent Deary is a health psychologist who has spent years helping his patients cope with whatever life has thrown at them. In How We Break, he has written a book for all of us who sometimes feel we have reached our breaking point.
Drawing on clinical case studies, cutting-edge scientific research, intimate personal stories and references from philosophy, literature and film, How We Break offers a consoling new vision of everyday human struggle. The big traumas in life, Deary points out, are relatively rare. More common is when too many things go wrong at once, or we are exposed to prolonged periods of difficulty or precarity. When the world shrinks to nothing but our daily coping, we become unhappy, worried, hopeless, exhausted. In other words, we break. Breaking, he shows us, happens when the same systems that enable us to navigate through life become dysregulated. But if we understand how the wear and tear of life affects us, then we have a better chance of navigating through times of burnout, stress, fatigue and despair.
By equipping us with a better understanding of what happens to us when we're struggling to cope, and making a bold case for the power of rest and recuperation, How We Break helps chart a path through difficult times.
©2024 Vincent Deary (P)2024 Penguin Audio

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      February 5, 2024
      Deary, a professor of applied health psychology at Northumbria University, continues his How to Live trilogy (after How We Are) with a cerebral look at how people “break” amid life’s “turbulence” and the ways they might traverse “its difficult straits with a little more ease.” Genetics, environmental exposures, trauma, and other factors contribute to the body’s allostatic load—the “wear and tear that happens when the turbulence is too much”—according to Deary, and if the system tips into “allostatic overload,” body and brain can “unravel” into such ailments as insomnia, anxiety, and chronic pain. His thesis sets the stage for complex philosophical meditations on the ways humans metabolize suffering, how language’s “system of categorisation” begets self-critique, the nature of the self, and the ways in which people form attachments to their pain. Deary’s flexible, “dimensional” approach makes room for varied individual experience (“Our breaking, like our world, will be our own”) and lays fertile ground for sensitive, analytical musings, though this looseness may frustrate those seeking direct guidance (vague questions for readers include, “how precarious are you, in your labour, in your home life, in yourself?”). Still, it’s an empathetic and searching meditation on some of humanity’s deepest psychological questions.

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